True Forgiveness & Letting Go
Release the Past Without Denying What Happened
"Forgiveness is as essential to the soul as oxygen is to the body!”
Human beings can carry perceived guilt, shame, self-hatred, bitter grievances, the need for justice and fear for years. Sometimes we know exactly what we are holding onto. Other times we simply know that something from the past still has a hold on us.
True Forgiveness is not about pretending something didn't happen, saying that what happened was okay, or putting yourself back into a harmful situation. It does not require reconciliation with another person.
For me, True Forgiveness begins with willingness. You do not have to know how to forgive. You begin by becoming willing to release the grievance and allow Spirit to do what you may not be able to do by yourself. Read True Forgiveness Teaching →
True Forgiveness Is Different
True Forgiveness is not simply a decision of the mind or the words, “I forgive you.”
In my work, True Forgiveness begins with a genuine willingness to release the grievance and allow Spirit to participate in the forgiveness process.
TRUE FORGIVENESS
Occurs Within Grace Consciousness
Spirit does the Forgiveness.
You do the Willingness.
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A deeply authentic willingness to allow the Higher Power to heal your mind of misperceptions, grievances, hatred, and victim consciousness.
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An act of humility in surrendering your “position” and beliefs so Divine Love can enter and heal.
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A recognition that Forgiveness cannot be willed or bestowed by the mind that holds any grievances and a childlike openness to Divine Intervention.
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A Higher Self (love) motivated action that asks for no punishment, only the release into Love.
False forgiveness deepens the wound and secretly harbors the desire to see the “offender” punished.
Occurs Within Victim Consciousness
FALSE FORGIVENESS
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A mere mental exercise lacking any authentic choice to heal or willingness to allow Spiritual Intervention.
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An ego (fear) motivated action to feel superior, often concealing resentment and self-righteousness.
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A pretention and denial that actually reinforces victim consciousness.
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An attachment to being “right,” holding onto the grievance and maintaining the desire for punishment or retribution.
What Can Happen Through the Forgiveness Process
Each person requires a unique and tender approach to True Forgiveness. Through Miracle-Minded Life Coaching and Akashic Records guidance, we can explore the grievances, patterns and experiences you are ready and willing to release. The intention is not to change what happened, but to help you become free from continuing to carry it.
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Energy Clearing to begin the healing and forgiveness process.
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Daily Energy-Clearing Practices to support healing and help you develop a practice you can use in everyday life.
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Releasing or Managing “Revenge Thinking” and the ongoing need for punishment or “justice.”
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Exploring the Chakra System to recognize where a primary wound may be held energetically and begin the process of release.
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Exploring Past-Life Influences that may be connected to a recurring pattern or grievance.
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Creating a Personal Healing Strategy with a daily practice to support your willingness to release the grievance and become free.
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A Safe, Non-Judgmental Place for Confession when there are things you are ready to speak, acknowledge and release.
True Forgiveness does not ask you to forget, excuse or approve of what happened. It does not require reconciliation or returning to a relationship or situation that is harmful. Your part is your willingness to release what you have been carrying and allow Spirit to participate in the forgiveness process.